Can you match that story? ie Can you tell one that is equally good, amusing, etc?
你能讲个与之相当的故事吗?
Both players are equally good so it's a toss-up (ie impossible to predict) who will win.
那两个运动员不相上下, 谁能取胜还很难说.
Search your heart and ask if you're not equally toblame.
你扪心自问是否自己也同样要承担责任.